Course Summary
Working with children who have experienced trauma, attachment disruption, or emotional distress requires more than traditional behaviour management—it demands a relational, trauma-informed approach. This practical, one-day course introduces social care professionals and foster carers to the PACE framework (Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy), giving you down-to-earth tools to build trust, promote co-regulation, and support emotional safety in everyday settings.
Throughout the day, you will explore how attachment history and neurodivergence influence a child’s behaviour, communication, and emotional regulation. You will learn actionable strategies for de-escalating distress, navigating difficult transitions, and handling conflict while maintaining strong relational boundaries. Designed specifically for front-line practitioners, this training helps care teams establish a shared language and reflective practice that reduces burnout and creates a nurturing environment for children in care.
Practical Relational Skills for Foster Carers & Residential Care Teams
Our UK Level 3 course bridges theory and real-world caregiving, offering practical guidance specifically tailored for residential care homes, foster care agencies, and community support settings. While this course is not a certified Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP) clinical qualification, it delivers high-impact, day-to-day therapeutic caregiving skills that empower staff teams, align with safeguarding standards, and support multi-agency collaboration.
- Core PACE Principles: Learn how to apply Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy in daily routines and high-stress moments.
- Trauma & Attachment Insights: Understand how fear, masking, and unmet needs drive challenging behaviours.
- De-escalation & Relational Repair: Practical tools to reduce defensiveness, build emotional literacy, and repair relationships after ruptures.
- Reflective & Team Practice: Build consistency across care teams, protect staff well-being, and embed trauma-informed values across your organisation.
Beyond the core four attitudes, this unit unpacks key relational concepts like blocked care (when chronic stress impairs a carer's capacity for empathy), relational testing versus trauma-driven distress, and the distinction between co-regulation and compliance. Participants explore how shame-informed responses diffuses defensiveness, helping staff navigate complex neurodivergent communication styles and sensory overload without resorting to punitive controls.
A Note Regarding DDP
This course focuses strictly on day-to-day relational caregiving skills and is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or connected to Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP) or DDPI Worldwide. It does not provide clinical accreditation. Please check our FAQs below for how this training differs from formal DDP therapy certification.
Course Learning Outcomes
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- 1.1Describe the core components of PACE - Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity and Empathy - and their relevance in children’s services.
- 1.2Explain how attachment, trauma, emotional development and relational safety underpin PACE‐informed practice.
- 1.3Identify the differences between PACE (non‐DDP) and formal Dyadic Developmental Practice/Therapy, including scope, boundaries and application.
- 1.4Analyse how PACE supports emotional regulation, connection and trust for children with trauma histories, disrupted attachments or neurodivergent profiles.
- 1.5Summarise how PACE aligns with strengths‐based, shame‐aware and neurodiversity‐affirming approaches.
- 2.1Describe how PACE‐informed communication supports co‐regulation, attunement and emotional safety.
- 2.2Identify how curiosity, acceptance and empathy reduce escalation, defensiveness, masking and fear‐based behaviour.
- 2.3Explain how playfulness can be used safely and appropriately to build connection, reduce tension and support relational repair.
- 2.4Analyse how trauma, unmet needs and sensory/emotional overload influence behaviour and how PACE responds to these presentations.
- 2.5Distinguish between behaviour driven by distress, unmet needs, trauma responses, neurodivergent communication and relational testing.
- 3.1Explain how to apply PACE principles during everyday interactions, transitions, routines and moments of challenge.
- 3.2Describe strategies for using PACE to support emotional literacy, emotional regulation and safe expression of vulnerability.
- 3.3Identify approaches for maintaining relational safety, including pacing, attunement, co‐regulation and non‐judgemental presence.
- 3.4Summarise how staff can use PACE to de‐escalate conflict, respond to distress and support relational repair following rupture.
- 3.5Explain how to challenge harmful behaviour, shame‐based responses or defensive patterns while maintaining acceptance and empathy.
- 3.6Analyse how consistent boundaries, predictable responses and positive role modelling strengthen PACE‐aligned relational practice
- 4.1Explain how organisational culture, policies and behaviour management systems can support or undermine PACE‐informed practice.
- 4.2Describe ethical, safeguarding and professional boundaries considerations when using PACE with children in care.
- 4.3Identify strategies for embedding PACE across teams, including shared language, reflective practice and relational modelling.
- 4.4Summarise how supervision, staff self‐awareness and reflective practice enhance PACE‐aligned relational engagement.
- 4.5Analyse how staff wellbeing, emotional regulation and team consistency influence the effectiveness of PACE‐based support.
- 4.6Explain how multi‐agency working, information‐sharing and collaborative planning strengthen PACE‐informed interventions.
Who is this course for?
This PACE training course is designed for residential care workers, foster carers, key workers, and social care staff looking for practical, trauma-informed tools to support children in care and build strong, trusting relationships.
Duration
1 day course - we can be flexible on start and finish times to suit your needs such as school run friendly times or twilight sessions.
Availability
This PACE course is offered in two delivery formats:
- Remote Online: Led by a live tutor via Zoom or Microsoft Teams, allowing participants to join remotely. (Also known as virtual classroom training)
- Face-to-Face: Delivered in person at your location or a venue you arrange. (Also referred to as on-site training)
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Certification
Each learner completing this course will receive a digital (PDF) certificate of learning.
Accreditation
The course contents are accredited by the Open College Network (OCN) Credit4Learning as a Level 3 course.
Choose the learning environment that works best for you: our expert-led training is offered in two convenient formats - remote tutor led online or in person face to face.
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The course contents are accredited by the Open College Network (OCN) Credit4Learning as a Level 3 course.
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